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What introverts can do better than loud people

Those who are introverted are often confronted with negative prejudices: they are shy, withdrawn, even unfriendly, even anti-social. There are also many benefits to being an introvert.

It seems like extroverts have an advantage in our world. In fact: Those who like to approach other people, present themselves well and with pleasure, involve others in conversations with ease and have good entertaining qualities have advantages in many situations.

Accordingly, introverted people receive tips and advice on how to overcome their shyness and get out of themselves better.

This may actually make sense under certain circumstances; for example when you are supposed to give a lecture. Or having to say something about yourself during a job interview. But being an introvert does not only come with disadvantages.

Beth Buelow, author ofThe Introvert Entrepreneur: Amplify Your Strengths and Create Success on Your Own Terms believes: "It's not about becoming a pseudo-extrovert, but about recognizing the valuable qualities of introverts."

Introverts charge their batteries when they are alone

For Dr. Jennifer Kahnweiler, author of the book The strengths of the quiet,The main difference between introverts and extroverts is that they recharge their energy reserves when they are by themselves. Contact with other people, on the other hand, costs them energy.

Extroverts, on the other hand, can recharge when they are surrounded by people and feel bad when alone for too long.

According to a 2008 study, introverted people take longer to process information. And not because they are slower, but because they are more thorough. They would take more time to understand one idea before moving on to the next.

Introverts are often not only more thorough, they are also often superior to extroverts in the following seven qualities:

1. They are good listeners

Those who do not like to talk so much prefer to listen. In addition, according to Beth Buelow, extroverted people can advance faster in a conversation before they have really understood what the other person has said. Not because they are selfish or they are not interested in the other person, but because they process information interactively, i.e. in exchange with others. Introverts, on the other hand, deal with information in an inward direction. That means they listen, think carefully and only then answer.

2. Think before you speak

Because many introverts feel uncomfortable when they talk, they carefully consider whether to say something and, if so, what to say. Means: They only talk when they really have something to say.

3. You are good watchers

Those who interact a lot with others run the risk of missing certain things from their environment. Those who tend to play a silent role in a group can devote more energy to observing. According to Kahnweiler, introverts are good at interpreting non-verbal signals like body language or facial expressions.

4. They are good friends ...

Those who can recharge their batteries when they are alone choose their company very carefully. Introverts prefer to have few, but high-quality contacts. Extroverts, on the other hand, need a large environment with many people. According to Buelow, introverts are picky about their friends and it takes some patience to really get close to them. However, you would offset this with great loyalty, undivided attention and a great deal of commitment to friendship.

5. ... and partners

Anyone who has an introverted person as a partner must allow them a certain amount of freedom. Because he needs the opportunity to retreat. And introverts usually grant this to their partners as well. Introverts are neither high maintenance nor overly clingy.

Even in a partnership, introverts are extremely loyal companions, good listeners and can easily withdraw themselves. This also takes a bit of patience here until you have conquered her heart.

6. You are a savvy networker

Networking and introverted? Does that go together? Not at first sight. Extroverts talk to as many people as possible at networking events, which often leads to superficial contacts that are less likely to stick in the mind. Introverts, on the other hand, choose more precisely who they are talking to and what they are saying. And they often listen more and better to their counterparts and thus learn more from the people they are talking to.

7. You are compassionate boss

This, too, is a supposedly unsuitable combination: superiors are often in the limelight and have to talk a lot - a horror for some introverts. However, according to Dr. Laurie Helgoe, author of the book Introvert Power: Why Your Hidden Life is Your Hidden Strength If you were to see extroverted bosses first of all the person of the boss himself and less the team and its performance.

It is completely different with introverted bosses: They would feel more comfortable if they can withdraw and that in turn would often benefit the team. And: Anyone who has an introverted boss can be sure that they will be heard.

Psychological tricks: These are the most common supermarket traps
Supermarket: These are the new psychological traps

Have you ever wondered why shopping trolleys are tilted towards the back? The goods slip out of sight, you get the impression that you haven't bought that many goods yet.

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Stacked goods suggest that they are particularly cheap products ...

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... which you have to access quickly before they are gone.

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Floors in the supermarket shine for what it takes. This makes the surface appear smooth, the customer slows down and spends more time between the shelves.

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For the same reason, expensive goods are lavishly draped and placed in the middle of the path. This makes it look more valuable ...

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... and you have to walk around it slowly and succumb to the temptation to strike.

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It's all in the light: Meat is usually illuminated in red so that it looks tastier.

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And the vegetables also look particularly fresh and crisp thanks to special lighting.

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Tasting bites should make customers feel guilty, so that they are more likely to buy something.

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It is very practical that the raw ham is offered right next to the asparagus. And with the fish, the lemons are still lying there. But this of course also means that we buy significantly more than necessary.

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