Is it worth waiting for love

Is it worth waiting for a person?

Is situation-person dependent
It all depends on how you relate to each other and how much you like to see or what the problem is that it doesn't work at the moment.

I once "waited" for someone who was simply not ready at the time they met, because he had caught his ex inflagranti and she was the dream woman for him and they were parted from one day to the next in the fight. i always thought it would work out and waited inside, where i lived my life of course .... at some point he met someone else for whom he was not immediately ready .... that even has nothing lasted year and that year he was with the ex again, probably to find out that it just doesn't work ...
Now he's a very good friend for me and I think it shouldn't have been at the time, because it really fits perfectly and he can't explain why it didn't work out at the time ....
the wait was in vain, but I think it could have worked.

now I have a similar situation, but the problem is a little different. he still loves this woman, but because he is so emotional, he cannot get away from her. he doesn't make it yet, but i know that inside he knows that the relationship is over. it has been for a long time and it never worked. For various reasons .... I know that his feelings for me are much stronger and that we both think that we have looked for and found each other ... I think it is worth the wait here. he wants the separation, but he can't manage it at the moment so I'll give him time ...

I have to say that I would never give someone a basket because of him, who I like just as much. I live my life and just hope that we can still do it.

But there are so many different reasons why he / she is not ready yet. some reasons cannot be removed by magic and cannot be removed over time, but some can be ...
and as nikkki26 already said "even if someone is still lagging behind other things, something else can be much stronger, but that person closes himself off against it, for whatever reason ...."

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