Why do people ignore Scorpio

How to Treat a Scorpio

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    Wear dark colors, such as Black, red, blue, purple to grab a scorpion's attention. Scorpios are drawn to dark and bold colors. Go for one of these colors that will accentuate your eyes to make the Scorpio stand out.[6]

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    Court a Scorpio until you have truly won their trust. A Scorpio longs for a meaningful and loving relationship. He craves connection on a deeply emotional, spiritual, and physical level. But that also means that it can take a long time for a Scorpio to really fall in love. Scorpios are the most loyal people you will ever meet when they feel that you are worthy of their loyalty and love.


    Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with more than 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and the presenter of the popular astrology and counseling show Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted the digital astrology program Stargazing on TLC and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes.

    Jessica Lanyadoo
    Astrologer and medium

    Our expert agrees: Scorpios can be more suspicious than other zodiac signs. Gain your Scorpion's trust by getting to their date on time every time. Once his trust is won, you have his loyalty and a friend for life.

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    Notice the light in her eyes. You can find out a lot about a Scorpio by just looking deep into their eyes. He doesn't have to say anything. When a Scorpio loves you, it shines like a light in their eyes.

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    Always be honest and don't play with his feelings if you really want to win his heart. Scorpios have a need for control that prevents them from tolerating games. You can evict them when they feel like the situation is no longer under their control. Likewise, if you violate a Scorpio's trust, you will have a very difficult time getting it back.

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    Be prepared for a lot. A relationship with a Scorpio can be very complex and difficult to understand, just like the person himself. A Scorpio demands, and gives, everything. He can be extremely jealous. The manipulative and controlling side of a Scorpio can also lead to many arguments and disputes.[7]

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    Respect his privacy. Don't gossip about your relationship with your friends. Scorpios are very closed off and can see this as a breach of trust. It is best if you keep any personal information your Scorpio tells you about himself to yourself. You should also refrain from posting anything about your Scorpio on social media unless they are aware of it and have given you their consent.[8]

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    Prepare for potential discussions about sex. Adult Scorpios are very much in tune with their sexuality, but mostly place meaningful relationships over frequent conquests. They are not shy about talking about sex, and you can talk to them about anything without shocking them.

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    Look forward to hot nights. Not only do Scorpios enjoy discussing sex, they are also very happy to perform their master discipline. The intensity of the Scorpio is reflected there very clearly and makes him the best and most passionate lover of the zodiac signs. Your Scorpio will only be satisfied when you are exhausted and have been able to live out all your fantasies with him.